I'm so behind on these posts, but some are just hard to write. Pets become so much a part of our lives. This is the story of Butter, our cat.
Ellie and I were playing on her swing-set in August of 2001, when the neighbor ladies from either side of our house were visiting with each other. The neighbor lady to the south of us told us (well, probably really me, because Ellie was not quite a year old yet) that two kittens had been abandoned at the tennis courts in town, and she thought they were de-clawed. Being de-clawed did not thrill me, and thankfully, they were not de-clawed. I didn't want to have a cat indoors, and really couldn't, because Thomas is allergic (turns out, I am the only one in the family that is not allergic). The lady to the north of us pointed out that we were the only family in the neighborhood that did not have cats. That really didn't bother me with a toddler to take care of, and a part-time job, and a husband, and a dog that was just barely a year old. I grew up having a cat, from age 5 to age 21, so the thought was tempting. The neighbors urged me on, and Thomas was at the tennis courts playing tennis. So, Ellie and I loaded up to go see kittens.
The kittens were friendly and playful. The orange one looked just like my cat, Muffin, when he was a kitten. Oh, I wanted to take him home and love him. Thomas was fine with that, as long as we took both kittens. That surprised me! I really thought he would say "no, cats". What he said was, "We can take both home, or neither one home." Well, I couldn't leave that little orange ball of sweetness. Ellie thought they were wonderful, too. Thomas said something about the white and gray one, I thought he said he was going to call it Spider. I completely heard him wrong, but the name stuck. I named the orange one Butter.
Ellie learned how to pet them the right direction, and be gentle with them. She was so young, I know she doesn't remember being taught, but she learned well. The kittens never scratched her, or got upset with her.
This picture is of the kittens in our garage, shortly after we brought them home, with a makeshift litter box (cardboard box and oil dry), and I don't know where we got the wet cat food and plastic bowl. The kittens later had their own food bowls, a real litter box, and dry kitten chow.
|August 13, 2001|
They also roamed to the neighbors. The same ones who told us we needed cats apparently had many visits from our kitties. We didn't find out until years later, but the neighbors to the north of us had a cat door, and our cats liked to use the door and follow their cats in the house. I would not have a cat door, living out in the country like we do. I would be afraid of what might walk in someday... like a skunk, or something! The neighbor to the south of us said her husband would always chase them off. She didn't mind them hanging in the yard, or garage with their cat, but I was glad her husband chased them off. Seriously! Send them home, or let us know to come and get them.
A couple of our neighbors admired Spider. She was super friendly, cuddly, and you can see her long hair. She had bright blue eyes. She was gorgeous! One day she never came home. I have a strong feeling she became a house cat. We took the cats to the vet and had them fixed and given their shots.
|Ellie, just over a year and a half old, with Butter. June 28, 2002|
Once, Wyatt accidentally shut the cat's tail in my car door. The cat was on the roof of the car, and Wyatt didn't know his tail was in the door. The cat clawed Wyatt's head, because he was trying to grab onto something... he was hanging by his tail. Butter was fine, his tail was fine. Wyatt was scared, and I was worried about what might be on the cat's claws that dug into the skin on Wyatt's head. Wyatt turned out to be fine, too.
Eventually, the neighbors told us about our cat coming in their house. The husband said our cat was feral , because he fought with their cats. The wife said that the cat wants to be a house cat, because they would come home and find him curled up on one of their beds. Butter was obviously not feral, he was super friendly to people (he even put up with little children petting him when he was old). We couldn't make him a house cat because of allergies, and he loved the outdoors. To smooth things over with the neighbors, for a while we kept Butter in the garage during the day and only let him out in the evening. Their cats were out during the day, and put up at night, because they were de-clawed. Butter really learned where his home was while he was "stuck" in the garage. I don't think he ever spent too much time at the neighbors after that, though I know he still wandered the neighborhood and hunted in the fields.
I loved to drive home and see his green eyes shining in the dark. He would crouch down in the grass, like he was going to stalk the car. He made me smile. Then, he would run and follow us home to get in the garage for the night.
Butter was a tough cat. He did get into fights. He killed snakes, salamanders, birds, rats, rabbits, and mice. He even killed a possum once. You can see one of his ears is floppy. He got hurt, and that is the way it healed.
As I said in the post in Memory of our Libby dog, the dog and cat became best friends after a few years. The hung out together, cuddled together, and the cat would even "massage" (with claws!) the dog's back. Butter even taught Libby to clean her paws with her tongue like a cat. They were totally best friends.
He looks like a tough character, doesn't he? But he had a soft heart for Libby and his family. He knew just when you needed a leg rub, or time to pet him and relax.
I made this bench for Ellie's room many years ago. Eventually, the best place for the bench was in the garage as a place to store rubber boots, and sit to put them on and off. Butter decided the bench was his bed. He slept there nearly every night after I put the bench there. He was funny, too. He kind of adapted to our schedule in later years. He would hunt and run around during the day. Many times in the last few years, he would want in and out all day long. He learned that if he snuck in the door to the kitchen and waited by the patio door, we would let him out there. Also, if he meowed outside the patio door (or snuck in there), we would let him through the kitchen out into the garage. He was a smart kitty.
I think Butter was lonesome after Libby died. I know my childhood cat, Muffin, didn't last too many years after our dog, Duke, died. Butter seemed to be looking for Libby, and had a questioning, almost mournful meow at times.
Butter appeared to decide that he needed to take over the job of dog, as well as his role of cat. He would follow us out to the barn when we did chores, or put the animals up at night. He was right on your heels, just like a dog would be. You can see in the picture below that he took on the job of babysitter/guard.
I don't know if age, a broken heart, or being overworked took it's toll on our cat, but I went through the garage to the basement on Monday night, January 13th, and Butter was there on the bench. He lifted up his head to look at me. I usually apologized for turning on the light and interrupting him. The next morning, Thomas woke me up to tell me that our cat died. Thomas found the cat on the floor, near the front of my Envoy. Wyatt and I buried him that day.